With the young heart, the age that I am at, it does not allow me to be sad. It pulls me, then push me forward to access more than I thought I knew. It continuously skip a beat to ensure I walk to places I have never been. It keeps being eager and longing for more out of this life.
Furthermore, the dawn finds me on the roads full of mist. Looking far ahead with the eyes transformed as binoculars. Hence, most whom would like to walk with me, they won’t understand or even access the view which I have for at some point it needs baptism to have a greater full view. It cannot be seen before it occurs. It is a fairytale before it turns into reality.
Without any faint of heart, the diamond is a diamond. It travels worldwide as a piece of stone until turned into a certain part of Jewelry. Hence, it outshines every single precious stone.
To pour my heart out, the heart full of gratitude. The heart which is more willing to open up to the new opportunities, it is the undying heart. It keeps on seeking more happiness and piece of renewable mindset. It races from one world to another and never shuts down. Eventually, at the touch of love any man turns into a poet.
Nevertheless, surely green pasture it is a place to live at. Pants down!!
In my entire life, I have called various people by different sweet names. Hence, one of the sweetest which I even felt its sweetness from deep down my heart have never exited out of my lips previously. Actually, most sweet names I had Knowledge of them and even calling them was due to formality of the way things were ordered. However, few which had deep meaning, they never escaped out of my lips. For they needed deep meaning and to be said rightfully with one’s heart.
To pour my heart out, it always gets personal when a person would love to call you with a certain name which nobody have been or not used to be called with. Many sweet names are used by many people, but one of the best are never used due to the weight they have.
Nevertheless, to break the ice, currently the sweet name just got spitted out of my lips without any notification. And all of a sudden, the name does not ramdomly nor routinely come out for anyone. It just get shot with direction like a bullet straight from the AK47 to another’s heart. And never misses the spot directed to and even the intention of it. This sweet name comes out to only one person, and at some point it just get voiced out without my expectation nor mindfulness because it is deep.
The sweetness of this folk is so special to the state where the name is accompanied by the deep feeling within the heart. Ever received a feeling whereby the heart would love to hug this certain individual with arms melted away? The feeling of hearing laughter in his/her absence? His ways of making you angry or annoyed turning into sourish honey, but due to the deep sweetness, the honey heals your heart, soul and spirit!
I don’t know about you, but currently this sweet name ‘Honey’ runs deep in my vains when I voice it out.
I always wish to say something to certain people. I always wish I can privately advice or correct certain people despite their position, how old they are or what we are in this life in terms of relations. However, due to no time or being scared that they might think I know it all. I withdraw the advice from being voiced for the better of things. Hence, I never offer it when it becomes personal. For in order to grow someone next to you has to grow as well. Development is essential.
To break the ice, the person in me always would love to show compassion to all the folks surrounding me. It can never be easy to just share your truthful opinion to any folk, especially since you just met them or maybe just arrived at a new location. Business or not, sharing the best advice is the best. It shows that there is a certain part of you which cares a lot for even the strangers. For there are those strangers whereby communicating with them feels like you have found your long lost sister or brother. It becomes deep to the state whereby you even pay a rule of forbidden to be wiped out.
One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go, whether it is guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.
However, to pour my heart out, self-reflection is valuable. It lets you grow physically, mentally and spiritually. Eventually, I have realized something important lately. There were seasons were I began my day with Quiet Time and Exercising, while there were days whereby I just had short Quiet Times without reading any scripture nor exercised.
To break the ice, there was a huge difference where I began my day with Quiet Time and Exercising. And then my day ran smoothly and it was full of joy without any disturbance. The good day became good while began it right. The moment you wake up in the dawn and know what to do is the beginning of success. Wake up, check the time and ensure that it is the ‘no phone’ period. Being quiet, listening to the voice of God via the scriptures. Normalize using tongues while praying to ensure everything is counted within prayer. Then everything you touch or get surrounded to, will never go wrong.
Secondly, without prayer everything goes wrong from the get-go. While you go out, you suddenly meet with the devil. For you did not meet with God first thing after opening your eyes. Actually, you are the devil’s target without any doubt and will never miss the worst bullets. For he will stand at your door and ensure he walks with you all the way with surity of everything going wrong. Even the prepared and planned things unfold as unprepared or unplanned due to not starting the day with Quiet Time and Exercise.
To break the ice, I am no longer going back to starting my day without any prayer or stretching myself. Everything planned and prepared unfolds as planned-prepared while began the day with prayer and some stretch. The energy installed by God within never runs out during the course of the day. Actually, even while the devil sent someone to test and temper with your emotions, the plan never works.
To let the cat out of the bag, the prayer covers even the unseen. The invisible which tries to cause unsettlement in your heart, soul and spirit. Hence, as long as the day was started with the spiritual meeting, nothing can even ruin your day. Even the devil’s tactics will never work. He will do everything through circumstances and people within your surrounding to temper with anything which will unlock the door to sadness, annoyance, irritation or anger within you all day long.
Hence, with prayer you conquer everything. Even the unnoticeable or unknown wars against you which you do not have knowledge of. So pray in the morning, within the course of your day and even before your eyes closes to rest for the night.
Have you ever felt like you lose a certain part of you after jumping the fence for someone whom wouldn’t walk a mile for you? Well, that is me currently! At times I commit some disrespectful doings unto self due to love and company of certain people.
I see how life is, but how come the people which you love their company more than the person you love seem to not even care at all. Why is that the person whom cares more to certain people is the one whom gets hurt by the same people? Hence, we out-grow certain habits and despite insulted by the same habits from the same people we counted in our lives without them counting us as worth to receive their care and love like we offer ourselves.
Swimming in the ocean full of Sharks for those whom cannot even paddle for you. Hence, at first, we get hurt by their actions as we show more care, love and honesty, but as we continuously squeeze them into our lives, we no longer get hurt by their doings. For we only hope for the best.
For if the dog gets scared at you and barks, we believe that there are certain folks it does not bark at, but welcomes them warmly with jumping all around-over them, and even onto the same person lavishly. Hence, do not get me wrong, that is how life should work out. For as people we have to appreciate those whom loves us more and never stop caring for those whom we seem to love their presence in our lives.
You do not have to defend or explain your decisions to anyone, it is your life. Love it without any apologies. Hence, there is something special about men whom depends on God. Always on their knees about everything. No matter the religion, they attract me like a magnet nearby any kind of shiny steel. They are the kind of men which are in charge and never take anything lightly.
Henceforth, they continuously believe and pursue God as if they were told that in certain few days or weeks they will die. As if a certain Doctor told them that they are diagnosed with cancer or any other dangerous illness which can take their lives. However, not being so.
To break the ice, at some days if you fumble or cause them to go out of the lane, they pray for you silently without enquiring. And eventually, you change via their strong Faith which can move mountains.
Actually, the way they speak about eternity. Their obedience in the commandments and ensuring they never conform to the trends and fashions of life, which fades at its time and return without alerting anyone. To let the cat out of the bag, such kind of men whom takes care of their family, friends and selves’ well-being. I actually take a bow for them.
As it is the month of women, almost all the advice shall be for all heroines. Hence, being a heroine does not mean one should have fought for freedom to be one. However, we are living with heroines daily in our homes.
To break the ice, the women whom took charge of their own household due to unstable or irresponsible men whom did not know what they want in their lives. The women whom forces things to happen whether sad, angry, irritated or annoyed. However, what was planned goes forth.
So to pour my heart out, as a lady never go after the man which you love with all your heart unless they more than hundred percent love you too. Never run after the man which takes advantage of you while there is another one showing better treatment of love than him. Never bent over for any man to walk over you or even become his doormat due to loving him more than he does. For most women get damaged emotionally due to following the man whom did not love them at all, but leaving the one whom loved them best with actions.
Furthermore, value oneself and never follow your heart when it comes to love. It can mislead you. As an individual with a brain, think, check out whom shows actions of love towards you, and whom is mistreating you. Whom offers you an empty plate with the promise of Buffet meal the following day whilst other offers way better for now and future to never starve for anything.
Continuously, always choose the best actions than empty words of building an empire with bank account full of credits. Follow your intuition. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve in everything. Never even settle for the one whom you love instead of he, whom loves you when it comes to relationships. Never allow yourself to die earlier because of men whom does not know what they want in life. For stress, unstable emotions and ruminating kills way more than the uncurable diseases.
Henceforth, the more you follow what loves you instead of what you love, the more you grow intellectually. The more you become healthier and your better self. As women we do not love due to materialistic stuff, but due to the actions shown to us. If one hugs or kisses you for ‘see you later’. If a man consistently texts you in the morning, afternoon or at night without offering any tangible thing, as a lady–one quickly falls, crawls, stands-up, and then walks in love. And the moment the lady walks in love, she will never be found on the ground by any man. Whom ever (man) will be trying to catch her,will have his view of her flying high in love to the state whereby nothing, but love makes sense to her.
So, I would like to advice all ladies to stop chasing the irresponsible men they fell and mopping on the ground for. No man can ever appreciate you while you dig a hole for yourself, then drop yourself inside for them. He will surely take the spade and pour the soil on you alive instead of taking you out to live for them. Hence, start allowing men whom loves you to love you better and those whom are playing games with you to continue without any care about them. Then you will thank yourself later.
Sometimes I don’t know whether to laugh or cry, but in this situation it is just humor. Hence, I have a story to tell, “Indatshana encane” in IsiZulu. As a young girl, I have been running when old men approached me and some ended up chasing me. Hence, with no knowledge that I am scared of them, they continued chasing me and continuously ran for my life.
To let the cat out of the bag, currently as a young adult, while an old man approach with an intention of dating, I call them “uncle”. Which almost all of them refuse to be called “uncle”. However, due to self-respect and my respect for them, I continuously show them more respect of a father or uncle.
To let the black cat out of the cat, since I moved into a certain accommodation, my landlord began guarding the accommodation from day in-to-out. Every single young man whom enters his accommodation, he checks which room he is going to. Even with the cars, if they stop by the gate, he checks whom is getting off and/or whom is going to board the car.
Eventually, he ensured he treamed his moustache to even look younger every now and then. Another thing is that he even gave the Garden boy off days to weeks, and began cleaning the whole yard himself. Hence, at first I thought that it is a normal routine, he usually does. However, to my amazement, it just began as I relocated to his accommodation.
Yesterday, the client whom is his colleague wanted to order certain products from Avon Justine and Herbalife Nutrition. Due to being late and knowing that he stays around my Unit, I thought that he should just pass by my gate and have a look of what to order. As he was ordering, the landlord passed by with a different vehicle from the daily one he drives.
To my amazement, he reversed a bit to see whom I was standing with at the Gate. As he saw us, he drived to wherever he was off to, then quickly returned with his vehicle and entered his premises with my client and I still at the Gate. Afterwards, he parked nearby where we were standing. Then I realized that my client was becoming uncomfortable bit-by-bit with the car parked by our side.
Whilst still discussing which products would be best, the client quickly wrapped up the conversation and said that please tell me while the orders placed have arrived. Quickly while the client have walked away, with myself walking towards my place, the landlord got off his car, then walked towards me with a wallet, some paper money showing from inside-out.
Furthermore, as he approached me, then greeted me and asked in consent of whether the guy was proposing or wasting my time. As he was talking, he started counting the money, then said, “Did he tell you where he is working and what he does?” I told him that, “Yes”. However, it is just a client whom wanted some beauty, nutritional and cosmetics products. Then he continued counting in front me with a smile, “He should never waste your time! You’re a businesswoman!!” Walked a bit, “You are a businesswoman!!” As he was talking, I just smiled and then in respect walked off.
Henceforth, without my knowledge, my landlord went to the nearby Salon while I was preparing to go to deliver at the nearby Plaza and Mall. As I went out finishing off, I came across him again, then he asked, “Have you ever went to check the hairstyles at the Salon?” With laughter, I replied, “Yes, while still having dreadlocks!” Then he continued, “Oooh… Now you have the short hair!! I was thinking that you still have long hair!” Then I replied, “it is short hairstyle currently!”
Furtherly, he walked off to the car. Then I continued with what I was doing, and entered my room. Due to have lots of things to do, even in my mind counting, planning what to do now and later, I just laughed off what the landlord did. However, today as we speak in last few hours, the same client offered to assist in collecting the money for credits from other clients. As he offered, I took the offer because it was going to be quicker with the car.
To cut everything short, as I went out, my landlord was outside and shaved the moustache. He was furious. He was actually a bomb which was about to explode as he was looking at the car at the gate with guys inside. As I was passing, he saw the same client from Yesterday and that it is “I” whom is going to board the car. Actually, he started the car, as he saw me. I tried to look at him deeper as he was unrecognizable due to removed moustache. Then as we went out, he also went off. However, as last time he followed me to check what kind of people or guys I usually chill with, I did not even mind of whether I will be followed again to check where am I going.
Our short story ends here. Hence, before it officially ends, I would like to advise you to respect your elders no matter what without any humor!! No sugar daddies nor sugar mamas!!
Is the Lord Jesus Christ your most precious treasure in the whole world? If so, count yourself among “normal” Christians, rather than among “nominal” Christians!
Henceforth, my old dictionary gives this definition as the meaning of nominal: Existing in name only, not real or actual; hence so small, slight, as to be hardly worth the name. With that as a definition, those who know they are Christians “in name only” should never make the pretense of being normal Christians. Thankfully those who are “normal” are constantly being drawn to praise and worship, charmed by the moral beauty which is found only in Jesus.
Furtherly, I cannot understand how anyone can profess to be a follower and a disciple of our Lord Jesus Christ and not be overwhelmed by His attributes. Those divine attributes faithfully attest that He is indeed Lord of all, completely worthy of our worship and praise!
In conclusion, always self-reflect yourself to check whether you are at the level of normal or nominal Christian. And if you find yourself shifted to nominal domain, ensure you relocate and reinforce.
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