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Congratulatory In Order: I’mPower’dWoman Book Club

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Overthinking Is Self-Sabotage

Overthinking Is Self-Sabotage In Slow Motion!!

Notably, To Become A Warrior, You Must Kill You Tears!!!

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Lend Yourself To Others, But Give Yourself To Yourself

Without beating around the bush, the greatest key to everlasting happiness which does not require anyone to make you happy is to love oneself. The more you fall in love with yourself you open the doors to greater things in your life. For everything starts with you. There is no greater joy to always look after oneself; look in the mirror and talk to the only one whom will never leave you for anyone or anything.

Henceforth, falling in love with oneself beats all the negativity from within and even within one’s surroundings. Self love grabs even the attention of the love of your life and ensure all the disloyal, dishonest, disrespectful folks gets intimidated by you. Actually, it even ensures that you never get attracted nor attached to them by any means nor expect anything from them. Eventually, your character and personality as well ensure no one messes with your body nor your mind.

The love from within improves everything. Your glow never runs out. You glow from year-in, year-out. The full 365 days seems nothing. For more focus will be on your health from mindset to deep down your body. Emotional intelligence becomes your best friend forever as long as you keep renewing the love.

To break the ice, the love will ensure that you no longer expect anybody to love you better. Even if you got the right spouse, the energy within you motivate your spouse’s love for you to never run out. The love drives him/her crazy. It becomes enough to the state whereby even temptations are nothing.

Take responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in other people’s hands.

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Where There Is Love There Is No Darkness

As it is the month of women, almost all the advice shall be for all heroines. Hence, being a heroine does not mean one should have fought for freedom to be one. However, we are living with heroines daily in our homes.

To break the ice, the women whom took charge of their own household due to unstable or irresponsible men whom did not know what they want in their lives. The women whom forces things to happen whether sad, angry, irritated or annoyed. However, what was planned goes forth.

So to pour my heart out, as a lady never go after the man which you love with all your heart unless they more than hundred percent love you too. Never run after the man which takes advantage of you while there is another one showing better treatment of love than him. Never bent over for any man to walk over you or even become his doormat due to loving him more than he does. For most women get damaged emotionally due to following the man whom did not love them at all, but leaving the one whom loved them best with actions.

Furthermore, value oneself and never follow your heart when it comes to love. It can mislead you. As an individual with a brain, think, check out whom shows actions of love towards you, and whom is mistreating you. Whom offers you an empty plate with the promise of Buffet meal the following day whilst other offers way better for now and future to never starve for anything.

Continuously, always choose the best actions than empty words of building an empire with bank account full of credits. Follow your intuition. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve in everything. Never even settle for the one whom you love instead of he, whom loves you when it comes to relationships. Never allow yourself to die earlier because of men whom does not know what they want in life. For stress, unstable emotions and ruminating kills way more than the uncurable diseases.

Henceforth, the more you follow what loves you instead of what you love, the more you grow intellectually. The more you become healthier and your better self. As women we do not love due to materialistic stuff, but due to the actions shown to us. If one hugs or kisses you for ‘see you later’. If a man consistently texts you in the morning, afternoon or at night without offering any tangible thing, as a lady–one quickly falls, crawls, stands-up, and then walks in love. And the moment the lady walks in love, she will never be found on the ground by any man. Whom ever (man) will be trying to catch her,will have his view of her flying high in love to the state whereby nothing, but love makes sense to her.

So, I would like to advice all ladies to stop chasing the irresponsible men they fell and mopping on the ground for. No man can ever appreciate you while you dig a hole for yourself, then drop yourself inside for them. He will surely take the spade and pour the soil on you alive instead of taking you out to live for them. Hence, start allowing men whom loves you to love you better and those whom are playing games with you to continue without any care about them. Then you will thank yourself later.

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Kindness, Like A Boomerang, Always Returns

The Lord is good unto all saints and sinners. He came forth into this world for not only the saints, but for the lost Sheeps which turned into rebellious goats. Never easy to turn them like the hot wire which can be shaped into something valuable.

Henceforth, He recognizes the hidden sufferings of His people daily and ensure He offers all the support and care which is needed. The Lord embodies the tangible example of love to those which are suffering from physical body to the innerward one. For some sufferings are not physical, but spiritual.

Furthermore, a lady or man might seem to be healthy bodily and mentally. With all muscles and curvitious. However, if you take your time to know them deeper, something is wrong with them. That is why, one should count all folks in their lives in prayer. For the God which I know showers comparison on all His creation. Actually, no matter how evil you think you are due to your past, the Lord never stopped loving you.

So, decide to take time by oneself. Move around the nature and have a beautiful view. And then, walk straight to the sea or dam, look straight into the water and you will see the creation which God ordained and kept for His purpose.

God is not finished with you!!

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He Who Wants The Rose Must Respect The Thorn

To break the melting ice, men can gather up to just discuss and plan their way to date one lady one-by-one. As long as it goes along with sex, they can do way foolish things which any lady would never think to that level of. Hence, it always seems way impossible to have a meeting just to date one lady. However, it happens.

This advice is only for them, “Girls”. Grandmothers, Mothers, sisters, daughters, granddaughters and Girlfriends. In this month of women (International Women’s Day 2021-March 08th), as a lady self-love, self-respect and self-improve yourself to the state whereby all men gets intimidated by you. Actually, the moment you can answer this question, “What do you live for as lady?” It is the beginning of your own self-worth.

Henceforth, it is the beginning of being able to differentiate between love and like. The ability to walk in love, but not fall blindly with the same character, personality or player–with different body and face.

Furtherly, as a lady, reflect on your life. Reflect on the relationships you had including your sex-life. Double check the characters of all the guys you have been involved in a relationship with. Does all their characters lookalike? Do they resemble each other with even your current guy dating, courting or married to? If so run for your life because you have dug yourself a hole out of disappointment and heart break. However, if you are married to him, just bow down and begin holding powerful prayers like in “War Room” movie. And God shall change him to a husband of your dreams, whom does not live low-life lifestyles.

To break the ice, as ladies we should love each other instead of fighting each other for the one man whom approached both of us in proposal of love as if no lady existed in his life. We as ladies, we did not walk straight to him and proposed him due to being lovesick. Actually, we should be women of prayers. Women whom believes and values themself way more to save themselves for the right man whom is ready to start a family, instead of a hurry for man whom sees only beauty or wants to feel like a man via sleeping with all women he comes across. Or even worse, impregnate some ladies to remove a certain stigma of being told by other men that he is not man enough if he cannot impregnate.

Wake up ladies and be in charge. Never beg love from any man. Hence, just find happiness and love in little things like family and friends. Do the right thing and put yourselves first. For you need emotional intelligence way more as the heart break or mental distress kills way more and easier than any other uncurable disease in the universe.


You are worth it! Stand tall!!

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As Water Reflects The Face, One’s Life Reflects The Heart

The Heart is the most fearful part of a being. It is fragile and easy to love, easy to break, easy to sadden, gets scared easily and easy to make angry despite how we control our reactions and emotions. Henceforth, it does not even choose when and how to love. And the most amazing thing is that it does not choose whom to love.

It is the size of every single being’s fist. And it ensure there is life in every folk. Without it, one can never know how to love with others. However, to break the ice, despite all the hard work it performs, it still needs to be guard. Too Bad!

The emotional attack and trauma impact on mental health. Whilst the absence of hearts which grows fonder kills us way more and faster than the obesity or the lack healthier lifestyle including the daily exercise.

Furthermore, most people daily get involved in depression due to heart being attached to some things or people. Even their self-esteem decline bit-by-bit until they feel unloved by the whole world without even the world stealing the view to an individual feeling attacked by it.

Continuously, the moment it receive no more of what it used to get, it becomes a problem. However, I once came across the International Bollywood movie called 3 Idiots and it stuck with me because it is comedy with strong language and message to deliver worldwide. You laugh for three full hours until the belly becomes painful. Hence, there is more than just humor from the movie.

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One thing, I have taken from the movie, it is while the Main Character, Rancho worn his heart on his sleeves, to assist the fellow Engineering student with his fourth-year Project while doing first year in the same Engineering College. Actually, his intelligence needed no studying nor repetition of lectures. However, one Lecture Presentation was enough to grasp all the Content.

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The one thing he did which stuck with me that he was telling the story about the old blind man who lived alone. It is that every single day before sleeping, he would take a walk around his Community without any sinking heart, put his right hand on the left side Chest above his heart. The hand was straight on and he could feel his heart beat. To break the ice, he would rub his heart, consoling his heart softly, but shouting out loud “Aal izz well” meaning “All is well”, until he is satisfied and his heart calm and feeling save in his house and Community.

To eat an elephant, the old blind man cutted it into pieces. And nobody knew that he was blind for years. However, it became like a routine to the state where someday the intelligent folk checked him and realized that the old man cannot see.

So tread carefully when it comes to the heart and mind, but most importantly the heart. For the heart forever complains to his/her sibling, “the mind” and the mind will keep ruminating until death takes its course.

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